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Today I probably had the best meal I have ever been served in a restaurant. We ate at the Hotel Radio here in Clermont. All meals will now be judged by a new standard for greatness.
Hope everyone is having a Merry Christmas.
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Well I'm off the visit my sister in France and spend Christmas. Wish me luck and I will see everyone around new years. Keep checking back for pictures.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Years.
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So a friend (henceforth Friend A) of mine calls me up a few weeks ago and says he and his wife are separating for while to cool down and needed a place to stay. I told him he was more than welcome to stay at my place. A few weeks go bye and its looks more and more like the separation is going to turn into a divorce.
Another friend (henceforth Friend B) of mine has been good friends with Friend A's wife for a little over a year now since he had a bad breakup. After Friend A moves in with me Friend B has been at this guys house "talking" with his wife at all hours of the day and night. It turns out that over the course of the year Friend B has developed feelings for Friend A's wife and they (wife and friend b) have acted on those feelings (to what extent no one knows) since the separation of 3 weeks ago.
Friend A is obviously decimated and wants to kill Friend B. I've know both guys for over 12 years. My initial reaction was to defend Friend B because I didn't think he was capable of that but I talked with him last night and he confessed to it all. He seems to think that because the marriage was breaking up; it was not as bad as it could have been and he basically said he intends to pursue a relationship with Friend A's ex-wife when she officially becomes ex-wife.
I told him the feelings that he has don't develop over night and that because of that fact he has essentially been cheating with Friend A's wife for as long as he has had those feelings. Also that you can trace some of the problems their marriage has been having to time when Friend A's wife started talking with him about her problems instead of talking with her husband. I said that he should have been more in control of his feelings and that when he realized he had those feelings he should have told her and Friend A. Then walked away from the problem. If the marriage did still end he could pursue the feelings if he wished and that while it would have been bad manners/rude it would have been a problem for the 3 of them and not the rest of the group of friends we have.
I told Friend B that I can no longer trust him because of his actions. Also that I cannot support nor be apart of his life while he would actively dishonor himself and those around him by cheating with and stealing another man wife. That any of our married friends can no longer trust him around their wives because of the potential that he might befriend and attempt to cheat with them. That he should beg forgiveness from Friend A and hope that Friend A will forgive him eventually.
My dilemma is that some people are telling me that I am over reacting. What they don't seem to understand is that I take honor very seriously. I am a fiercely loyal person. I hold personal responsibility in very high regard. Marriage is a sacred covenant before God and he has broken that covenant which involves my faith.
My question to ya'll is:
Am I over reacting?
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